Gut Feel is always Real II

Thursday, January 12, 2012 4:38:22 PM

When my ex and I were still planning for a wedding, I asked God for a sign and that sign was if the wedding will not be pushed through by the end of September 2011 as planned, then we are not meant for each other.  We filed for marriage license May 30^th and will be expired September 29, our anniversary.  September came, the wedding that we planned didn’t push through and we even had a big fight on our anniversary to the point that we almost broke up.  I knew then that it wasn’t working as planned and it seemed that I already had the sign but I loved him and we tried to work things out but I have never been confident with the relationship anymore.  I had doubts but because I loved him, I just went on.  I tried to be positive and keep things smooth but there were misunderstandings, there were fights that I was just disregarding, there were unsettled issues like finances and lifestyle and many other things that I just didn’t mind because I was hoping things will work out fine with him and hoping that the relationship will last.  I built dreams with him and even wanted to help him with his own dreams.  I really tried. God knows I did, but I realized when it's not God's will, he will really make a way to keep you out from a bad situation.  That sign, that little voice inside, have already told me it's not going to work out but I just disregarded it until this one particular incident happened that finally caused me to say "THIS IS OVER.  I SHOULD HAVE OBEYED YOU FROM THE VERY START THAT YOU TOLD ME TO STOP IT."

The Lord (if you don't believe in God let's say, "The higher power or that little voice inside) has his way of revealing things to us.  It's just that he lets us experience things and do our own way for us to learn and when he needs to get in the way, he will make a way to get you out from that situation.  He really has his own way of working out for your own good.  Hence, I was spared of a lifetime of misery.

This is really true:  ‎"Most of us are in touch with our intuition whether we know it or not, but we're usually in the habit of doubting or contradicting it so automatically that we don't even know it has spoken."