i recently talked to somone whom i haven't talked for some time and during our short conversation, he said he is looking for "that" someone again. it struck me because he ended up his second marriage just a few years ago and now he is looking for "that" someone again and hoping he gets married for the third and last time if he finds the "right" person. his story is not new anymore, right? in fact, i have some friends who have gone through relationships and even marriage that didn't work out but after some time, here they are again looking for "that" someone and hoping to meet "that" someone for the second time and some for the nth time. im not an expert on romance and relationships but based on the people i've met who have been there and done that, i can say most of us humans have that "thing" in us who want to love and be loved in return except for those who are happy being alone and choose to be alone and get satisfaction from other things, but most of the people i know including myself have that desire to really end up with "that" someone. this may sound mushy, cheesy and even corny to some but i believe and i have observed that most of us really long for "that" someone to share love and life with that's why even if some of us go through several mismatches, heartaches and broken relationships, most people i know are still not giving up on the thought that one day they will end up with the "right" person.
for me (i may be right and i may be wrong but this is my opinion anyway), we are made to love and be loved. i think this is more of human nature and innate in each one of us that there is really that "thing" inside that will never stop believing and hoping that one day we will be with "that" person that our hearts have been longing for. some are just lucky enough to find their perfect match early in their lives and some of us need time and will experience several mismatches before we finally meet our perfect match and still the bottom line of it all boils down to one word - LOVE.
Sheena's comment: Indeed, Ms Jones, it all boils down to love. Just like in one of my favorite romantic movies Crazy/Beautiful---> "there are millions of people out there but in the end it all comes down to one." Nice post Gang. I have been through failed relationships too, but I come out learned and better. Love must all be worth it.
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